The Lilith Academy
Shadow Work For The Western Woman
Witchmas Collection, 2025
Why Witchmas Shirts Exist
Witchmas shirts were born out of survival, not aesthetics.
I didn’t create them because I’m anti-Christmas. I created them because Christmas—especially in dysfunctional families—can be one of the most psychologically violent times of the year, dressed up in lights, sugar cookies, and spiritual bypass.
For a lot of us, the holidays weren’t safe. They were theatrical. Performative love. Forced forgiveness. Silent hierarchies. Narcissists in festive sweaters. Children drafted as emotional shields. Truth swept under the rug so the tree could stand straight.
Witchmas is for the people who clocked the bullshit early but didn’t yet have language, power, or permission to name it.
These shirts aren’t about rebellion for rebellion’s sake. They’re about sovereignty. About signaling—quietly or loudly—that you see through the illusion and you’re no longer willing to play the role assigned to you.
When I was younger, I thought I survived those family systems because I was weak, sensitive, or “too much.” Turns out I survived because I was perceptive. Because I could feel the lies in the room. Because my nervous system refused to cooperate with fake harmony.
Witchmas shirts are for that version of me—and for you.
They’re armor disguised as cotton.
They’re boundary spells you don’t have to explain.
They’re humor as psychic protection.
They’re a wink to the ancestors who also knew better but didn’t always have a way out.
There’s Chicano humor in them because laughter has always been a survival technology for us. Because sometimes the only sane response to absurd power structures is to laugh, side-eye, and keep your soul intact.
You don’t wear a Witchmas shirt to start a fight.
You wear it so you don’t have to participate in one.
It says:
I see you.
I’m not available for your projections.
I’m not the scapegoat anymore.
And yes—I know exactly what I’m doing.
Witchmas is for those who reclaimed their power after being misunderstood, mislabeled, or sacrificed to keep the family myth alive.
It’s not anti-tradition.
It’s anti-illusion.
And sometimes, that’s the most sacred thing you can wear to the table.
The Church of Lilith
The Church of Lilith exists for women who have known exile—not as failure, but as initiation. It’s for those who recognize the language of displacement, rupture, and refusal because life itself has been their teacher.
The Church and the Lilith Academy work hand in hand, the way mind and body do. One does not replace the other. One animates the other.
The Academy engages the intellect, names the patterns, and dismantles what has been inherited.
The Church holds the devotional and alchemical integration—where As Above, So Below meets within Western feminine consciousness.
If that language makes sense to you,
you’re already close.
You’re invited to visit the Church of Lilith here: The Church of Lilith